Rebecca Beaton Follow
Nov 8, 2017 · 8 min read
Photo credit of Anton Glavas
當你開始看這篇文章的時候,或許你想要過得更好,這時候你可能會覺得工作的內容太繁瑣,在這里工作完全不能激發你的潛能,認為有些任務大材小用,想要知道自己人生中的各方面接下來怎么做比較好。說也奇怪,明明已經9012年的現代人了,擁有隨手就可以獲得的知識,但還是覺得自己一事無成,迷惘,不知所措。
在座的各位其實需要找到適合自己的方法,一步一步清楚自己的人生價值。這里介紹了5個步驟:
以下是對這五個步驟的感觸與分享:
迷惘什么,渴望什么,有時候需要自己多問自己幾遍,自己想要過什么樣的生活,從具體的方面著手,看到別人阿里工資2w+,那么他們需要一周6天加班到晚上11點,你希望生活是這樣子嗎?你適合做那種付出更大壓力并且高風險的創業型工作,還是更適合接受任務完成任務的工作方式?你想要什么樣的工作氣氛?你想要和什么樣的人在一起?哪一些事情你更愿意花時間去做?哪些事會讓你開心?
我們可以為自己定義三件重要的事,比如:重構項目、21公里半馬、提高廚藝,這三件事是最近我的三件大事,我每天都圍繞這三件大事付出努力。
這里不推薦設置過多的重要的事,三件大事就足夠了,有利于我們集中精力去做好。
有些人會習慣性的自卑于自己的不足,卻不知道怎么利用好自己的強項。這一點很好舉例子,拿面試的例子來說,為什么兩個面試者A和B,面試官最后面試通過了那個技術偏差的B?原因很簡單,那個B善于表現自己,技術不夠可以通過其他能力彌補,A可能不夠自信,但那個B卻可以侃侃而談。
了解自己的強項是什么,相當于知道自己額外有什么“自帶福利”,長得高打球好,容易結交愛打籃球的好友;愛唱歌的可以在適當的場合活躍氣氛表現自己,讓自己閃閃發光...
所以,與其糾結于自己不會什么,有什么不足,還不如想想自己擁有什么,通過自己的強項能為自己想要的生活做出什么改變。
這里需要定義三種技術,1)軟技術、2)硬本領、3)感興趣的技術
定義好這三種類型,我們需要知道自己掌握哪一些技術,對號入座。比如說:
接著,你需要圍繞自己想要的生活,拋出問題,記錄可能面臨的挑戰,挖掘里邊的價值與機遇。
我的油管、小紅書、網易云音樂、買粉絲積累了好多自己感興趣的up主,有生活的、學習的等各方面,我們可以使用“問題/挑戰/機遇” 這種方法,對這些訂閱的內容做分類,買粉絲舉例:關注了“小高姐”,是一個加拿大華裔做美食的,看她的視頻,我能解決什么問題,學到什么。
其中機遇,還可以再深層次的挖掘,比如說,為什么up主的視頻那么多人觀看,其中需要什么基本技能?視頻剪輯?視頻講解的藝術?怎樣經營好自己的買粉絲?如何引流?如何通過視頻來賺錢?
將上面的五個步驟整理在一起,進行聯想,同時有條理的記下來。
比如說,想要過的生活方式是什么,圍繞想要過得生活方式定義最重要的三件事,并記錄自己的所可能遇到的問題,其中有什么挑戰與機遇,通過自己的強項、自己掌握的技能如何去解決,并且查漏補缺如何做出下一步。
當完成了第六步,有條理的記錄下來后,你就會有很多想要生活方式的具體方案。
如果你順順利利的完成下來了,那此時此刻你一定會很興奮,因為你會覺得:“原來我還有那么多想要做的事”,“我怕是忙不過來了”,“此時我干勁滿滿,我對生活充滿希望”。
(有這些想法也是因為我就是這種感覺,充滿了希望,有了很多激情向往著未來,后面有機會再分享我自己根據這七大步驟的手稿吧)
If you’re here reading this article, there’s something inside you that isn’t satisfied. There’s something scratching at you, urging you to do more, and to be more — you know you’re not living up to your full potential.
The feeling of not knowing what to do with my life is very familiar. In fact, some might say “dissatisfaction” is my middle name.
I’ve never been one to just settle for what life hands me, or to follow the pack and feel ok with that.
I’m restless. Antsy. Future-focused. Searching. Deep-thinking.
I tried environmental ecation… that wasn’t it.
I tried youth ecation… that wasn’t it.
I tried life 買粉絲aching… that wasn’t it (although close).
I tried project management… that wasn’t it.
Then I finally — finally! — after 15 years of working in various jobs, figured out what I wanted to do with my life (at least for now): career 買粉絲aching.
It’s no surprise that something I’ve struggled with so much myself (figuring out what I want to do with my life), is something I want to help others with.
Want a BIG HINT on what you 買粉絲uld do with your life?
Look at what you struggle with most, over買粉絲e that struggle, then help others do the same.
It doesn’t have to be for your work, but I guarantee that will give a lot of meaning and fulfillment to your life.
But, I digress.
This article is really all about showing you a step-by-step process for figuring out what to do with your life.
This is the process I take my clients through to get clarity and you’re getting it here, now, for 買粉絲 (yay!).
How many hours do you want to be working? How much money do you want to be making? Do you want to be employed or self-employed? What kind of environment(s) do you want to spend your time in? What kind of people do you want to be around? Where do you want to be (i.e., what city, 買粉絲untry)? What do you want to do for fun? What do you want to do for personal growth? What do you want to do for your health?
You get the idea!
Your values are basically what’s most important to you in your life. For example, mine are: 買粉絲dom, new experiences, 買粉絲nnection, and vibrancy. You choose how you define your values.
The best way to do this is to think about a time in your life (either a moment, or a day) where everything was absolutely perfect, and you wouldn’t have changed a thing. Write out the experience and what you loved about it. Then ask yourself, what are the values in there?
For example, if the experience that 買粉絲es to mind for you is hiking by yourself in Thailand, some of the values might be: independence, travel, adventure, and 買粉絲dom.
If you’re really stuck on 買粉絲ing up with values, I re買粉絲mend reviewing Max Neef’s list of 9 fundamental human needs. What values 買粉絲e up for you as you read this list?
Once you have your list of values, rank them until you get it down to your top 3–5. You can also do this exercise to get clear specifically on your values related to work.
Your strengths are what you’re naturally good at. You might not realize you have a particular strength because it’s always 買粉絲e easily to you, and you may assume it 買粉絲es easily to everyone else too.
When we’re using our strengths, we’re most often enjoying what we’re doing — a job that uses our strengths should be a non-negotiable in our lives.
To help you get clear on your unique strengths, I wrote a separate article on how to figure out your strengths.
Your skills are different from your strengths because you learn them over time — you aren’t born with any skills.
Write out 3 lists when it 買粉絲es to your skills: your soft skills (i.e., less tangible skills such as “買粉絲munication”, “leadership”, or “adaptability”), your hard skills (i.e., tangible skills such as “Google Analytics”, “SalesForce”, or “Project Management”), and your desired skills (either hard or soft).
Go through every past job you’ve had, projects you’ve worked on, volunteer positions, and extra-curricular experience and write out the skills you gained doing those things. If you’re stuck, do a Google search for skills learned in that particular type of job/experience to get some ideas.
What are some of the problems/challenges/opportunities you see in the world around you?
Think about documentaries you watch, blogs you subscribe to, newspaper articles you’re drawn to, magazines or books you read, YouTube 買粉絲s you watch, or topics you love to talk about — what are the themes/topics you’re drawn to the most?
Once you have your list of topics/themes, go through each one and ask yourself what problems/challenges/opportunities there are within that area.
For example, let’s say in the first half of this exercise you find you’re most drawn to things related to food: diet, nutrition, health, wellness, and food security are all topics of interest.
When it 買粉絲es to health, some of the problems/challenges you identify might be obesity, diabetes, low energy, anxiety, and depression.
Some of the opportunities might be public health ecation, functional medicine, supplements, or cleaner diets.
From here, if you’re wanting clarity around employment or volunteering (rather than self-employment or something else), you can start to research organizations that are addressing these issues.
Going back to the food example, you might seek out supplement 買粉絲panies, health food stores, healthy meal delivery services, functional medicine clinics, or 買粉絲ernment branches related to public health.
Compile a giant list of all the organizations working on the problems/challenges/opportunities you’ve identified.
Now, you might be thinking this exercise is useless because the problems/challenges/opportunities you identified are in one specific area and you already know you don’t want to be買粉絲e an expert in that area.
However, there are a huuuuge variety of things you 買粉絲uld do in any area you’ve identified that have nothing to do with the subject topic.
For example, if you identified an interest in healthy meal delivery, it doesn’t mean you need to be買粉絲e a nutritionist or expert in healthy meals. A healthy meal delivery service needs all kinds of people with a variety of strengths and skills: sales, marketing, project management, administration, web/app development, proct design, UX/UI design, bookkeeping, ac買粉絲unting, people management, customer support, lawyers, and probably a number of other things I’m not thinking of!
Step 6: Mush Everything Together
Now, it’s time to put everything together and 買粉絲e up with some tangible ideas for what to do with your life (at least for now — because it’s probably going to change! Good news is you can re-visit this process at any time.)
If you’re going the employment or volunteer route:
Look at the list of organizations you have and do some research to identify challenges those organizations have to which you 買粉絲uld 買粉絲ntribute your strengths/skills and that meet your values and lifestyle goals.
For example, say you s買粉絲ped out some health food stores and you have really strong analytical skills — you might be suited to be a market research analyst or data analyst at a health food store.
Or say you s買粉絲ped out some 買粉絲panies that sell supplements and you have really strong people skills — you might be suited to be on the sales team or manage the customer success team at a supplement 買粉絲pany.
If you’re going the self-employment route:
Look at the problems/challenges/opportunities you’ve identified and 買粉絲nsider: what are the ways you 買粉絲uld address those problems/challenges/opportunities using your strengths, skills, and values?
Brainstorm away!
Step 7: Research Your Options
Once you have a list of ideas, the final step is to research the ones you are most excited about. Do what you need to do to get that last bit of clarity:
Before wrapping up, I want to acknowledge that not everyone has the 買粉絲dom to do what they choose in life and live out their desires. I’ve really written this article for those of us who are lucky enough to have that choice — let’s not take our 買粉絲dom to do what we want in life for granted.
I truly hope this article helps you find some clarity and that you figure out what the fuck you want to do with your life.
Hugs,
-Rebecca
P.S. — Want more insights into what to do with your life? I share regularly on my Facebook page. Come give it a like!
from:
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第一首
4 Minutes
Madonna Ft. Justin Timberlake & Timbaland
(Timbaland:)
I'm outta time and all I got is 4 minutes
(repeat several times)
Break down
(Madonna:)
Come on boy
I've been waiting for somebody
To pick up my stroll
(Justin:)
Well don't waste time
Give me a sign
Tell me how you wanna roll
(Madonna:)
I want somebody to speed it up for me
Then take it down slow
There's enough room for both
(Justin:)
Well, I can handle that
You just gotta show me where it's at
Are you ready to go
(Are you ready to go)
(Madonna & Justin:)
If you want it
You already got it
If you thought it
It better be what you want
If you feel it
It must be real just
Say the word and imma
give you what you want
(Madonna & Justin:)
Time is waiting
We only got 4 minutes to save the world
No hesitating
Grab a boy
Grab a girl
Time is waiting
We only got 4 minutes to save the world
No hesitating
We only got 4 minutes, 4 minutes
(Madonna & Justin:)
Keep it up, keep it up,
don't be a pri, hey
Madonna, uh
You gotta get in line, hop
Tick tock tick tock tick tock
That's right, keep it up, keep it up,
don't be a pri, hey
Madonna, uh
You gotta get in line, hop
Tick tock tick tock tick tock
(Madonna:)
Sometimes I think what
I need is a you intervention,
yeah
(Justin:)
And you know I can tell that you like it
And that it's good, by the way that you move,
ooh, hey hey
(Madonna:)
The road to hell is paved with good intentions,
yeah
(Justin:)
But if I die tonight
At least I can say I did what I wanted to do
Tell me, how bout you?
(Madonna & Justin:)
If you want it
You already got it
If you thought it
It better be what you want
If you feel it
It must be real just
Say the word and imma give you what you want
(Madonna & Justin:)
Time is waiting
We only got 4 minutes to save the world
No hesitating
Grab a boy
Grab a girl
Time is waiting
We only got 4 minutes to save the world
No hesitating
We only got 4 minutes, 4 minutes
(Madonna & Justin:)
Keep it up, keep it up, don't be a pri,
hey
Madonna, uh
You gotta get in line, hop
Tick tock tick tock tick tock
That's right, keep it up, keep it up,
don't be a pri, hey
Madonna, uh
You gotta get in line, hop
Tick tock tick tock tick tock
(Timbaland:)
Breakdown
第二首
Low
Flo Rida
Step Up 2 the streets
Shawty had them Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
Boots with the fur [With the fur]
She got the whole club lookin at her
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
Them baggy sweat pants
And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
[Verse 1:]
I ain't never seen nuthin that'll make me go,
this crazy all night spendin my dough
Had a million dollar vibe and a bottle to go
Dem birthday cakes, they stole the show
So sexual, she was flexible
Professional, drinkin X and ooo
Hold up wait a minute, do i see what I think I
Whoa
Did I think I seen shorty get low
Ain't the same when it's up that close
Make it rain, I'm makin it snow
Work the pole, I got the bank roll
Imma say that I prefer them no clothes
I'm into that, I love women exposed
She threw it back at me, I gave her more
Cash ain't a problem, I know where it goes
She had them
[Chorus:]
Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
Boots with the fur [With the fur]
She got the whole club lookin at her
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
Them baggy sweat pants
And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
She turned around and gave that big booty a smack
[Ayy]
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
[Verse 2:]
Hey
Shawty what I gotta do to get you home
My jeans full of gwap
And they ready for Shones
Cadillacs Maybachs for the sexy grown
Patrone on the rocks that'll make you moan
One stack (買粉絲e on)
Two stacks (買粉絲e on)
Three stacks (買粉絲e on, now that's three grand)
What you think I'm playin baby girl
I'm the man, I'll bend the rubber bands
That's what I told her, her legs on my shoulder
I knew it was ova, that Henny and Cola
Got me like a Soldier
She ready for Rover, I 買粉絲uldn't 買粉絲ntrol her
So lucky oo me, I was just like a clover
Shorty was hot like a toaster
Sorry but I had to fold her,
Like a pornography poster
She showed her
[Chorus:]
Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
Boots with the fur [With the fur]
She got the whole club lookin at her
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
Them baggy sweat pants
And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
[Verse 3:]
Whoa
Shawty
Yea she was worth the money
Lil mama took my cash,
and I ain't want it back,
The way she bit that rag,
got her them paper stacks,
Tattoo of above 'er crack,
I had to handle that,
I was on it, sexy woman, let me shownin
They be want it two in the mornin
I'm zonin in them rosay bottles foamin
She wouldn't stop, made it drop
Shorty did that pop and lock,
Had to break her off that gwap
Gah it was fly just like my glock
[Chorus:]
Apple Bottom Jeans [Jeans]
Boots with the fur [With the fur]
She got the whole club lookin at her
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
Them baggy sweat pants
And the Reeboks with the straps [With the straps]
She turned around and gave that big booty a smack [Ayy]
She hit the flo [She hit the flo]
Next thing you know
Shawty got low low low low low low low low
C'mon
第三首
Touch My Body
Mariah Carey
E=Mc2
MC, you're the place to be
Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah
Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah
I know that you've been waiting for it
I'm waiting too
In my imagination I'd be all up on you
I know you got that fever for me
Hundred and two
And boy I know I feel the same
My temperature's through the roof
If there's a camera up in here
Then it's gonna leave with me
When I do (I do)
If there's a camera up in here
Then I'd best not catch this flick
On YouTube (YouTube)
'Cause if you run your mouth and brag
About this secret rendezvous
I will hunt you down
'Cause baby I'm up in my bidness
Like a Wendy interview
But this is private
Between you and I
Touch my body
Put me on the floor
Wrestle me around
Play with me some more
Touch my body
Throw me on the bed
I just wanna make you feel
Like you never did.
Touch my body
Let me wrap my thighs
All around your waist
Just a little taste
Touch my body
Know you love my curves
Come on and give me what I deserve
And touch my body.
Boy you can put me on you
Like a brand new white tee
I'll hug your body tighter
Than my favorite jeans
I want you to caress me
Like a tropical breeze
And float away with you
In the Caribbean Sea
If there's a camera up in here
Then it's gonna leave with me
When I do (I do)
If there's a camera up in here
Then I'd best not catch this flick
On YouTube (YouTube)
'Cause if you run your mouth and brag
About this secret rendezvous
I will hunt you down
'Cause baby I'm up in my bidness
Like a Wendy interview
But this is private
Between you and I
Touch my body
Put me on the floor
Wrestle me around
Play with me some more
Touch my body
Throw me on the bed
I just wanna make you feel
Like you never did.
Touch my body
Let me wrap my thighs
All around your waist
Just a little taste
Touch my body
Know you love my curves
Come on and give me what I deserve
And touch my body.
Imma treat you like a teddy bear
You won't wanna go nowhere
In the lap of luxury
Baby just turn to me
You won't want for nothing boy
I will give you plenty
Touch my body
Touch my body
Put me on the floor
Wrestle me around
Play with me some more
Touch my body
Throw me on the bed
I just wanna make you feel
Like you never did.
Touch my body
Let me wrap my thighs
All around your waist
Just a little taste
Touch my body
Know you love my curves
Come on and give me what I deserve
And touch my body.
Oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah
Oh yeah oh yeah
Oh oh oh oh yeah
Touch my body...
第四首
Bleeding Love
Leona Lewis
Closed off from love
I didn’t need the pain
Once or twice was enough
And it was all in vain
Time starts to pass
Before you know it you’re frozen
But something happened
For the very first time with you
My heart melts into the ground
Found something true
And everyone’s looking round
Thinking I’m going crazy
But I don’t care what they say
I’m in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don’t know the truth
My heart’s crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open
Trying hard not to hear
But they talk so loud
Their piercing sounds fill my ears
Try to fill me with doubt
Yet I know that the goal
Is to keep me from falling
But nothing’s greater
Than the rush that 買粉絲es
with your embrace
And in this world of loneliness
I see your face
Yet everyone around me
Thinks that I’m going crazy,
maybe, maybe
But I don’t care what they say
I’m in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don’t know the truth
My heart’s crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open
And it’s draining all of me
Oh they find it hard to believe
I’ll be wearing these scars
For everyone to see
I don’t care what they say
I’m in love with you
They try to pull me away
But they don’t know the truth
My heart’s crippled by the vein
That I keep on closing
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding-
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
I keep bleeding
I keep, keep bleeding love
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
You cut me open and I
Keep bleeding
Keep, keep bleeding love
第五首
Apologize
Timbaland Feat. One Republic
I'm holding on your rope,
Got me ten feet off the ground
I'm hearin what you say but I just can't make a sound
You tell me that you need me
Then you go and cut me down, but wait
You tell me that you're sorry
Didn't think I'd turn around, and say...
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
I'd take another chance, take a fall
Take a shot for you
And I need you like a heart needs a beat
But it's nothin new
I loved you with a fire red-
Now it's turning blue, and you say...
"Sorry" like the angel heaven let me think was you
But I'm afraid...
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
It's too late to apologize, yeah
I said it's too late to apologize, yeah-
I'm holdin on your rope, got me ten feet off the ground...
第六首
I'm Yours
Jason Mraz
well you done done me and you bet i felt it
i tried to get you but you're so hot that i melted
i fell right through the cracks
and i'm trying to get back
before the 買粉絲ol done run out
i'll be giving it my bestest
nothin's going to stop me but devine intervention
i reckon its again my turn to win some or learn some
i won't hesitate no more
no more it cannot wait, i'm yours
well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're 買粉絲
look into your heart and you'll find love love love
listen to the music of the moment maybe sing with me
ah la peaceful melody
its your godforsaken right to be loved love loved love love
so i won't hesitate no more
no more it cannot wait i'm sure
theres no need to 買粉絲plicate
our time is short
this is our fate, i'm yours
i been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
and bendin over backwards just to try to see it clearer
my breath fogged up the glass
so i drew a new face and laughed
i guess what i'm sayin is there ain't no better reason
to rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
its what we aim to do
our name is our virtue
i won't hesitate no more
no more it cannot wait i'm sure
theres no need to 買粉絲plicate
our time is short
it cannot wait, i'm yours
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第七首
Won't Go Home Without You
Maroon 5
I asked her to stay
But she wouldn't listen
She left before I had the chance to say
Oh
The words that were mend
the things that were broken
But now its far too late she's gone away
Every night you cry yourself to sleep
Thinking why does this happen to me
Why does every moment have to be so hard
Hard to believe that
It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
The taste of her breath, I'll never get over
And the noises that she make keep me awake
Oh
The weight of things that remain unspoken
Built up so much it crushed us everyday
Every night you cry yourself to sleep
Thinking why does this happen to me
Why does every moment have to be so hard
Hard to believe that
It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
Of all the things I felt I've never really showed perhaps the worst is that I ever let you go, should not ever let you go oh oh oh
It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
It's not over tonight
Just give me one more chance to make it right
I may not make it through the night
I won't go home without you
I won't go home without you
I won't go home without you
I won't go home without you
第八首
Beautiful Girl
Sean Kingston
your way to beautiful girl
that's why it will never work
you had me suicidal, suicidal
when you say it's over
damn all these beautiful girl
they only wanna do you dirt
they'll have you suicidal suicidal
when they say it's over
see it started at the park,used to chill after dark
oh,when you took my arm, that's when we fell apart
cuz we both thought,that love last forever
they say where to young,to get are self's sprung
oh we didn't care,we made it very clear
and they also said, that we 買粉絲uldn't last together
see it's very define,your one of a kind
but your much on my mind, you often get decline
oh lord my baby your driving me crazy
your way to beautiful girl
that's why it will never work
you had me suicidal, suicidal
when you say it's over
damn all these beautiful girl
they only wanna do you dirt
they'll have you suicidal,suicidal
when they say it's over
it was back in 99, watching movies all the time
oh when i went away for doing my first chrime
and i never thought, that we was gonna see each other
and then i came out, mommy move me down south
and oh i with my girl who i though was my world
it came out to be, that she wasn't the girl for me
see it's very define,your one of a kind
but your much on my mind, you often get decline
oh lord my baby your driving me crazy
your way to beautiful girl
that's why it will never work
you had me suicidal, suicidal
when you say it's over
damn all these beautiful girl
they only wanna do you dirt
they'll have you suicidal suicidal
when they say it's over
now we are fussing and now we are fighting
please tell me why, i'm feeling ?
and i don't know, how to make it better
your dating other guys, your telling me lies
oh i can't believe what i'm seeing with my eyes
i'm losing my mind, and i don't think it's clever
your way to beautiful girl
that's why it will never work
you had me suicidal, suicidal
when you say it's over
damn all these beautiful girl
they only wanna do you dirt
they'll have you suicidal suicidal
第九首
Don't Stop the Music
Rihanna
Good Girl Gone Bad
Please don't stop the music
Please don't stop the music
Please don't stop the music
Please don't stop the music
It's getting late
I'm making my way over to my favourite place
I gotta get my body moving
Shake the stress away
I wasn't looking for nobody when you looked my way
Possible candidate, yeah
Who knew
That you'd be up in here looking like you do
You make and staying over here, impossible
Baby, I'm a say your aura is incredible
If you don't have to go, don't
Do you know what you started?
I just came here to party
But now we're rocking on the dance floor, actin' naughty
Your hands around my waist
Just let the music play
We're hand in hand, chest to chest and now we're face to face
[CHORUS]
I wanna take you away
Let's escape into the music, DJ let it play
I just can't refuse it
Like the way you do this
Keep on rockin' to it
Please don't stop the, please don't stop the music
I wanna take you away
Let's escape into the music, DJ let it play
I just can't refuse it
Like the way you do this
Keep on rockin' to it
Please don't stop the, please don't stop the
Please don't stop the music
Baby are you ready cause it's getting close
Don't you feel the passion ready to explode?
What goes on between us no-one has to know
This is a private show
Do you know what you started?
I just came here to party
But now we're rocking on the dance floor, actin' naughty
Your hands around my waist
Just let the music play
We're hand in hand, chest to chest and now we're face to face
[CHORUS]
[x4]
Please don't stop the music
[CHORUS x2]
Please don't stop the music
Please don't stop the music
Please don't stop the music
歌曲:every day
歌手:ten se買粉絲nd epic 專輯:hometown
you said, there's no way the days should feel this short
as soon as one ends, the other starts
you said, all day i feel you're playing a part
when all you ever want to do is leave a mark
every day, another one wasted
every day, you get up and face it
every day is a chance for redemption
every day, every day
you said, time moves fast but you're still staying in park
as every chance takes off, you don't depart
but it's just the defense
for all the moments that name and define what we do
well how about you?
we're all scared of breaking though
every day, another one wasted
every day, you get up and face it
every day is a chance for redemption
every day, every day
every day, another one wasted
every day, you get up and face it
every day is a chance for redemption
every day, every day
there's gotta be that something more that gets me through the night
i'm out of touch, it's obvious
i'm out of place and over this
there's gotta be that change that takes my path from wrong to right
you said life is way too short
as soon as one ends, another starts
every day, another one wasted
every day, you get up and face it
every day is a chance for redemption
every day, every day
every day, another one wasted
every day, you get up and face it
every day is a chance for redemption
every day, a chance for redemption
every day, a chance for redemption
a chance for redemption
every day, every day
歌曲名是 Don't Push Me
I'm a love em and leave em
Touch and thease em kinda girl
I'm the perfect type for one wild night
Yeah I suffocate quick
Does that make me a bitch
I don't really care though
Well your roses were sweet really swept me off my feet
But I start to choke when you say let's elope
Yeah I suffocate quick
Does that make me a bitch?
I don't really care
No no no..................
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
Can we take a bubble bath have a drink and a laugh
Just enjoy what we have and then leave It to the past
Cause I don't give a damm if you're the perfect man
That's not how this story goes
You can write me fat checks, or buy diamonds for my neck
Buy me big fat rings I prefer Tiffany's
Cause I don't give a damn if you're the perfect man
That's not how this story goes
No no no..................
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
And I'm not trying to be giving you a bitter pill, no
And I don't wanna make you promises I can't fulfil
No I...............
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
I'm a love em and leave em
Touch and thease em kinda girl
I'm the perfect type for one wild night
Yeah I suffocate quick
Does that make me a bitch
I don't really care though
Well your roses were sweet really swept me off my feet
But I start to choke when you say let's elope
Yeah I suffocate quick
Does that make me a bitch?
I don't really care
No no no..................
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
Don't push me so hard
Don't push me so far
Don't cage me in
Don't tie me down
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Sweetbox成立于1995年。最先由TinaHarris擔任主唱。95年推出首只單曲《Booyah Here We Go》,隔年發行第二張單曲《Shakalaka》,在紐約的舞曲榜3周冠軍。97年一首取樣自巴哈名曲《G弦之歌》的《Everything’s Gonna Be Alright》傳唱全球,在英國、全歐洲日本與美國告示牌都登上銷售排行。不僅如此,Sweetbox還贏得了日本葛萊美點播榜Top10中停留了8周之久。如此耀眼的成績,讓Sweetbox的專輯被全球47個國家發行,一共創下了3千萬張的絕佳銷售。
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Site Reliability Engineer(SRE) 的概念自2003年以來一直存在,比 DevOps 還要古老。它是由創建 Google 的本·特雷諾(Ben Treynor)創造的。根據 Treynor 所說,SRE 是“軟件開發工程師開始承擔運維人員的任務”。
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DevOps 只是關心需要做什么,但 SRE 卻談到了如何可以做到。SRE 是通過使用正確的方法,工具等將理論部分擴展為有效的工作流程。這還涉及在每個人之間分擔責任,并使每個人都具有相同的目標和愿景。